Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Truly Pathetic

I don't know about you, but there are few more helpless feelings than being the mother of a sick child. Poor Quincy has barely moved or eaten for a week. And I've done every trick in the book. Blankies, treats, baths, medicine, doctors visits, and lots of cuddling. But nothing seems to work.

If there is an upside to prolonged sickness, though, it's the snuggling. It's the only time they ever sit still long enough to give them loves. And in Quincy's case, it's also the only time she'll sit still long enough to put a headband on. Unfortunately, I couldn't really capitalize on the moment because she looks absolutely miserable. Maybe she could be the poster child for some children's hospital?
True to the title of this post, I must have also looked TRULY PATHETIC today as I trudged my two little ones through the snowy and bitter cold parking lots of doctors offices and hospitals. Sometimes I just have to laugh at the sight I must be. I had to park in the nether regions of the hospital and drag Fisher through slush and ice as I held Quincy. He, of course, slipped and started crying. Once I registered with the hospital for labwork, I then had to take the kids back to the car, buckle them in, and go to a different section of the hospital to have the labwork done. There, I waited like a leper in the specially marked "influenza" waiting room. THEN, some nurse suited up from head to toe stuck a six inch tube down each of Quincy's nostrils to "de-goop." This, of course, traumatized Fisher as much as it did Quincy.
All in all, a day to go down in the record books. Both for snowfall and total treachery.

Monday, December 7, 2009

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Big Boy Haircut

As evidenced by this picture taken last month, I like to keep Fisher's hair long to showcase his long, curly golden locks. (that by a cruel twist of fate were given to him rather than any of my girls!)

But after a severely botched attempt to cut his hair myself this week, I took him to the local SuperCuts to have it repaired. Ultimately, we walked away with his hair shorter than it has ever been and sporting a fashionable new "big boy" haircut.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

'Tis the Season

I am currently making a slideshow DVD for my in-laws for Christmas. Ssshhh! I am photoshopping, compiling, and editing hundreds of pictures of the entire Ross clan. I am fairly certain that I am going blind from looking at the computer screen, I've ignored my children for embarrassingly long stretches, and I'm ashamed to admit the things I yell at the computer when I lose pictures. 'Tis the season to be jolly. Fa la la la la la la la la.

Everywhere Little Girls

We spent Thanksgiving with my mom's family in Sandy. On that side of the family there are a lot of girls, and quite a few aren't even pictured. Aren't they beautiful? On the Fisher side of the family, there are more girls than boys too. And now, I have more girls than boys.

I've gotta say I love the many, many girls in my life. In fact, the song from Annie comes to mind. Little girls, little girls, everywhere little girls . . . Jenny, Sarah, Tiff, Em, and Megs, can you still hear Miss Hannigan singing from the Laynie's old school record player?

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Thanksgiving Weekend

Five pounds later, a fun-filled Thanksgiving week draws to a close. From weddings to funerals, football in the backyard and on the big screen, and three fabulous turkey dinners, Thanksgiving is over and Christmas has begun.

The Gift of Today

Over the Thanksgiving weekend, I attended a funeral of a 40-year old man whose death was sudden and unexpected. Though I didn't know him (I am friends with his sister), I was touched by the experience. Perhaps it was because it was the season of Thanksgiving, but I was particularly aware of my gratitude for the many blessings in my life. I couldn't shake the thought that each day is a gift. Tomorrow is never guaranteed to us.

I'm sure like all of us, I have often had the mentality of "just getting through the day" instead of actually "spending" the day. I chided myself because I may have had a few too many of those days this year than I should have. What if the day we are so eager just to "get through" is our last? It's a fatalist thought, but one that I will definitely benefit from.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! How thankful I am for all of you. (I can say that because I know who is reading this blog). And I love each and every one of you.